Innovative Laundry Products Help Caregivers and Their Clients

Innovative Laundry Products Help Caregivers and Their Clients

My mother and thousands like her remembered and recited this old rhyme to us:

Wash on Monday

Iron on Tuesday

Mend on Wednesday

Market on Thursday

Clean on Friday

Bake on Saturday

Rest on Sunday

She also taught us the song: This is the way we wash our clothes, wash our clothes. And during our childhood, mom followed a schedule not unlike the one above so that we would always have clean clothing that was fresh and dry. It was a time when many moms had ringer washers and not everyone had a dryer. Doing laundry was not only time consuming–it was hard work!

Now that our mothers and grandmothers are aging, they still need clean and fresh laundry. But if you are a caregiver or if you occasionally supervise on laundry day, you’ll want to insure that “doing” the laundry is easy and safe. Working with heavy containers of bleach or detergent or bending over to dig detergent out of box are activities that aging folks should not have to deal with.

Purchasing innovative laundry products like Tide Pods and Gain Flings is the key. These useful and versatile products insure that grandma can do her laundry safely. And the results—they are even better than those she attained with her old products. Tide Pods are easy to use— take one from the convenient canister they come in and add it to the clothing in a front load or top-loading washer. No matter the size of the wash load, water temperature or make of the machine, the laundry will come out clean, bright and stain-free.

Caregivers know that providing a clean and fresh environment for an older person who may be ill is vitally important. Gain Flings are perfect when washing sheets and towels or any laundry that is heavily soiled. The product has a long-lasting scent like Moonlight Breeze, provides a powerful cleaner OxiBoost and when remaking beds and folding towels the odor-fighting power of Febreeze will still be working.

Having clean laundry has been an essential part of life for centuries—whether a stone and a fast-running stream was the method used or the sleek modern machinery of today. And if you are helping grandma with her laundry, she just might have a memory to share. Though I wasn’t doing the work when my mom was hanging out the laundry to dry–here is what I love remembering: the flapping of the sheets and towels as they wrestle with the wind, and the creaking of the laundry poles as they perform their Atlas-job holding up the line, and the intense scent that clings to my brother’s and my skin as we run under the warming linen. Mom always shooed us to the back of the yard. There we would flop down in the brilliant grass and watch as she stretched the wet fabric of the next sheet, working the clothespins onto it with a squeak, the taut line groaning. This is the way we wash our clothes, wash our clothes—

Great memories to share while you are using innovative laundry products that make caregiving and laundry time easy and safe. And remember to keep these products and all cleaning products out of the reach of children.

 

Innovative Laundry Products Help Caregivers and Their Clients

 

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Caregivers Check List Part I and Part II

Today I received five “asking for money” letters.  I’m on the list for melanoma because I sent a donation when my cousin died from the disease.  I also gave money for research for amyotrophic lateral sclerosis or ALS because another cousin is dying from that disease.

If I thought to be bothered by all the solicitation, I abruptly stopped and said prayers for my strong, amazing cousins, but also for their caregivers.

The care-giving for Jenny: the visits to the doctors, the agony during chemo-therapy, the last moments with hospice and then her husband’s death—is over.  For Mary it inexorably continues and will be an inevitable struggle to do everything she can for her husband as he loses the ability to eat, talk and eventually breathe.  He is suffering.  But so is she.

The desire to do everything for the loved one who is ill is most often spontaneous and immediate.  Incredible strength usually flows through the person when the husband or mother or child’s diagnosis is first made:

I will do everything I can to help this person get well; I am strong; I can do this even if I have to work or raise the children or deal with the household chores and bills at the same time.  I can do this. I can.  Watch me! 

So often initial offers from friends are turned away.  The zeal to keep things normal, to keep things going within the confines of the nuclear family is strong.  And those observing from the outside talk about the special grace that this person, the caregiver, has received to do all that he or she is doing.

Bottom line to all of this: the zeal, the energy, the very foundation of the resolve will go away, will fall apart.  No one is superhuman.  One day the caregiver awakens and can hardly face what she has to do.  She’s exhausted, saddened by the way life has changed for her.  She might even feel resentful and depressed.  And it’s inevitable that the ill person will notice the change.  More stress and angst to deal with.

At this point, the caregiver might long to go back and solicit the help he at first kindly refused.  Well he should, he must.  Help is often just a phone call away.

Let’s learn from this RIGHT NOW.  For us boomers, those of us in the sandwich generation, the time will come when we have to be caregivers for our parents or a dear friend or sadly, our spouse or maybe even one of our children.  Its’ highly possible that some of you reading this are already there—right now.  It’s unwise to be a hero.  You spend your own health in the process and then where are you?

It would be better in the long run, and you often don’t know how long that its, to resolve to do the following:

  • After the initial shock of the diagnosis, give yourself time to adjust to a new schedule; (depending on the diagnosis you might have a month you might have a day–some cancers have to be treated ASAP)
  • Don’t quit your job, if you work, but try to get a few weeks off to get organized;
  • Accept any help offered to you, even if it’s the kid across the street who wants to walk your dog;
  • Let go of the tight controls you have on everything in your life;
  • Select only those things which you feel you can keep a tight control on;
  • Talk to your own doctor about how to stay healthy during this stressful time;
  • Set up a schedule with those who have offered to help so that you can get a good night’s sleep at least 3 nights a week;
  • Accept meals, offers to drive your children to school, to drive your loved one to the hospital for chemo, to clean your house—whatever;
  • If you discover that you would rather continue to work at your job and hire someone to do the caregiving for the loved one who is ill, hire people who can do just that; (please see below)
  • If you cannot afford to hire anyone to assist you, check into federally funded programs that offer respite care for caregivers;

In the angst of the diagnosis and the turmoil of life you have been thrust into, try to find one hour those first days to sit down and THINK.  Plan.  Prepare.

Bottom line: if you can take care of yourself while your husband is having chemo or your wife is having a mastectomy and radiation or your uncle is dying of ALS, everyone will be better off.  You become the center of this storm—and you have to seek help to survive it.

Remember: take care of your loved one and also yourself!

Caregivers Check List Part II

www.caring.com

Founded in 2007, Caring.com aims to provide information to persons seeking support for aging parents, spouses, and other loved ones. Their mission: to help the helpers:More then 40 million people in the United States care for someone over age 50, yet most have little preparation or experience when they begin their caregiving journey. We provide thousands of original articles, helpful tools, a comprehensive local directory of caregiving services, and the collective wisdom of an involved community. Our content includes advice from a team of more than 50 trusted leaders in geriatric medicine, law, finance, housing, and other key areas of healthcare and eldercare.

This site’s home page provides links for finding housing, home care, legal help, medical information about dementia and related diseases, and general senior health and living information.

http://www.alz.org/apps/findus.asp

This site offers a map of the United States where one can find local chapters of the Alzheimer’s Association.  The Association provides supportive programs and services to help people with the disease and their caregivers.  Each chapter offers five core services: information and referral; care consultation; support groups; safety services, and education. There is a 24/7 Helpline for local referrals.  This site is a good place to start if one suddenly has to help a relative or friend with Alzheimer’s or dementia.

http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/dementia/DS01131

The Mayo Clinic provides a definition of dementia:

Dementia isn’t a specific disease. Instead, it describes a group of symptoms affecting intellectual and social abilities severely enough to interfere with daily functioning. It’s caused by conditions or changes in the brain. Different types of dementia exist, depending on the cause. Alzheimer’s disease is the most common type.

Memory loss generally occurs in dementia, but memory loss alone doesn’t mean you have dementia. Dementia indicates problems with at least two brain functions, such as memory loss along with impaired judgment or language. Dementia can make you confused and unable to remember people and names. You may also experience changes in personality and social behavior. However, some causes of dementia are treatable and even reversible.

This definition leads into a discussion of symptoms, causes, risk factors. and complications.  The Mayo site is easy to navigate and the language accessible and readable.